这他喵的也该算英语言文学吧, 格物致知. 主要是查了那么多资料太监了就浪费了…

• Safeword
• BDSM
• LGBTQIAPK
• LGBTTQQFAGPBDSM

本来想把所有不认识的词都查一遍, 不过想想好像基本都有英文解释😂所以就不查了…

起因是看了一期肥伦秀:

我看的是进度条到头的那期, 因为从最新的开始只有到 John Travolta 老师我才听说过😂然后系统给我随了一期贾老板和他媳妇儿 Jessica Biel 参加肥伦秀: Best Friends Challenge with Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel, 这一期主要讲的是 Jessica Biel 和 Jimmy Fallon 猜贾老板的真心话. 到第三个问题是两个人一起猜贾老板的 safeword 是啥:

结果两个人都猜对了, 场面非常喜庆, 之后我就去查了下这个 safeword 是个什么玩意儿…

Safeword

• Wiktionary
  safeword(Noun)
  A word used in sadomasochistic sexual practices to indicate that a participant wants to stop.

• Freebase
  safeword
  A safeword is a code word or series of code words that are sometimes used in BDSM for a submissive to unambiguously communicate their physical or emotional state to a dominant, typically when approaching, or crossing, a physical, emotional, or moral boundary. Some safewords are used to stop the scene outright, while others can communicate a willingness to continue, but at a reduced level of intensity. Safewords are usually agreed upon before playing a scene by all participants, and many organized BDSM groups have standard safewords that all members agree to use to avoid confusion at organized play events. Safewords are generally used by those whose practice of BDSM falls under the guiding philosophy of safe, sane and consensual. Those who practice the more permissive philosophy of risk-aware consensual kink may abandon the use of safewords, especially those that practice forms of edgeplay or extreme forms of dominance and submission. In such cases, the choice to give up the use of safewords is a consensual act on the part of the bottom or submissive.

我大概理解的是, safeword 就是你和别人在玩 SM 的时候感觉不堪受辱了准备叫停的时候喊的东西. 我个人举个可能不恰当的例子:

• 三国杀新版国战黄盖只能苦肉一次, 每次喊的“请鞭挞我吧, 公瑾!!!” 应该就算 safeword.
• j3D 和洗头小妹洗了个澡喝了个酒即兴大保健的时候玩起了捆绑 play, 三帝弄到一半儿历战之躯有些虚, 于是喊:“哎呀, 不行啦…” 喊的这个东西就属于 safeword.

不知道我这个理解有没有问题.

关于国外一些常见的 safeword, 可见 The Most Common Safe Words People Use During Sex.

在 Freebase 版的解释下出现了 BDSM, 下面我们看看什么是 BDSM.

BDSM

• Wikipedia
  BDSM(Noun)
  BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics. Given the wide range of practices, some of which may be engaged in by people who do not consider themselves as practising BDSM, inclusion in the BDSM community or subculture is usually dependent upon self-identification and shared experience. The term “BDSM” is first recorded in a Usenet posting from 1991, and is interpreted as a combination of the abbreviations B/D (Bondage and Discipline), D/s (Dominance and submission), and S/M (Sadism and Masochism). BDSM is now used as a catch-all phrase covering a wide range of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures. BDSM communities generally welcome anyone with a non-normative streak who identifies with the community; this may include cross-dressers, body modification enthusiasts, animal roleplayers, rubber fetishists, and others.

说白了, BDSM 就是羞耻 play 中的常用操作的总称缩写. 由于咱不玩儿这个, 所以咱也不太懂…Bondage and Discipline 感觉像是捆绑和调教, Sadism and Masochism 应该是施虐和受虐, 但是这个 Dominance and submission 实在想象不粗来是怎么进行的😂

这个表是 Wiki 上 BDSM 中的几种类型和角色对比:

BDSM

Aspects
B&D, B/D, or BD	Bondage and discipline
D&s, D/s, or Ds	Dominance and submission
S&M, S/M, or SM	Sadism and masochism
Roles
Top/Dominant	partner who performs or controls the activity
Bottom/Submissive	partner who receives or is controlled
Switch	switches between roles

LGBTQIAPK

下面我们来看一下 LGBTQIAPK, 算是 BDSM 周边的概念.

之前是一位同学提过这个概念:

当时说要查查, 不过现在查完又忘了😂

对应的全称如下:

Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Queer Intersex Asexual Pansexual/Polygamous Kink

解释我参考的是: LGBTQIAPK+ and What It Means:

L- Lesbian ( girls who like only girls )
G - Gay ( guys who only like guys )
B - Bisexual ( girls or guys that like girls and boys )
T - Transexual ( female to male or male to female )
Q - Queer (a homosexual male)
~Q - Questioning (when a person is unsure of their sexuality at that given time)~
I - Intersexual (both male and female physical characteristics)
A- Asexual (without sexual feelings or associations)
~A - Aromantic (having no desire to be romantically involved with a other person)~
~A - Ally (A supporter of the LGBT+ community that does not identify as LGBT+)~
P - Pansexual (not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity)
P - Polygamous (having more than one sexual partner)
K - Kinks (fetish(es) seen as abnormal to the public, ie. biting, bondage/bsdm, public sex, spanking, tranny sex, etc.)

具体就不翻译了, 英文解释得比较通俗, 大部分都可以看得懂, 而且怕翻译不好伤害性少数群体的感情…

LGBTTQQFAGPBDSM

这个算是前两个的综合版…

全称:

Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Transsexual, Queer, Questioning, Flexual, Asexual, Genderf**k, Polyamourous, Bondage/Disciple, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/Masochism